I read countless stories of how some guys/ladies refused to date anyone because they assumed their friend or crush was interested in them; only for them to wake up to the news of their crush’s wedding.
Hey lovelies,
Because someone is friendly, being there for you, easygoing and cracking jokes with you does not mean he/she is interested in dating/marrying you. Read that again!
Most times is possible they might be interested in you but pls not in all cases.
Dear bros, toast her first and collect your answer followed by her actions; before concluding in your head. For the ladies pls wait till he makes his interest clear to you until then DON’T ASSUME you’re his girlfriend. Stop wounding yourself!
Dear lady, not every friendly man calling you with pet names and being nice to you has the intention of having a solid relationship with you. Even though some want to just have their way with you and move on to the next prey.
Stop building castles in your head simply because he calls you “my love” It doesn’t mean you’re truly his love. Let this go in! That word is now very cheap. Everybody dey uses am, ma, dear. Calm down!
They may tell you that you mean the world to them but which type of world my dear? You may likely be a small hut in one bush like that o! Ask questions, always.
No go dey catch feelings where you supposed dey catch cruise. 🤣
Get this:
Some men/women are gifted as joy givers and carers
Some are naturally friendly
Some are trained to respect and value everyone around them
Some have a great sense of humour
Some are gifted to always make people smile and laugh
Some are blessed to be counsellors, encouragers, motivators and fathers/mothers to anyone including strangers.
WHILE SOME ARE PLAYERS!
KNOW WHO IS WHO TO AVOID UNNECESSARY HEARTBREAKS!
Know the differences between flirting, entanglement and being committed in a relationship. Without bias, ladies are mostly the victims of this saga. Because they invest a lot in their emotions. Dears, stop carrying imaginary and mental love/weddings in your head. Guard your hearts!
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